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Saturday, November 14, 2009

Relationship

Well, the 'before' and 'after' holiday syndrome has finally wear off and now, am back to reality to carry on with life. It is time to make money again and start saving for the next trip. Ya...I will do just that, lols...
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I read from one of the blogger MUN, about a beautiful relationship that lasted 18 years and it reminded me of my very own relationship that I decided to call it quit recently after about 19 years. Why, you may asked. Many people asked too. Well, it was just too stressful to carry on and I am glad with the decision I finally made and have no regrets over it and I dont feel sorry about it too.
As for the big question mark, no point questioning about 'him' but instead, 'why I did it and is it because I hated him?'. For my case, it wasn't 'hate'. It was just that the relationship was too suffocating and I really needed some breathing space. Of cause calling it quit just because of wanting to breath better is not really a reasonable reason. Sure there are more other reasons to the decision too. Whatever it is, I hope it is for better.
Nothing much changed since the breaking-up. Apart from being able to breath better, I now have more oxygen to keep me healthy and happy, hahaha. At this moment, I am very focus on living healthy. I eat well, sleep well and not forgetting, exercise well too.
Being healthy, happy and stress free is my current goal now. Life is too short and we never know what is in store for us next. So, just stay healthy and be happy.

5 comments:

Lorenza said...

Things happen for a reason!
Sometimes you don't need an excuse to do things.
As long as you are happy... we are happy for you too!
How are Million and Dollar doing??
Kisses and hugs
Lorenza

"ME N MY MILLION DOLLAR" said...

thks Lorenza, Million is ok, but Dollar is abit lost and stay by herself most of the time.

i said...

Deron, sorry to hear this. Hope you're ok and he is too. It's true life is short so we must live well and be happy. Poor Dollar...must get Million to give extra sisterly love :-)

"ME N MY MILLION DOLLAR" said...

hahaha...u know the 2 of them don't get along well. I am fine Serendipity like the song goes "don't worry be happy".

mun said...

I fully agree with you that life is short and "the future's not ours to see" (like the "Que_sera_sera" song says). Here's wishing you all the best and may you be healthy, happy and stress free!